
I’m always on the look out for a great book. I have a stack of books on the bench next to my bed that I want to read. Since having our first child 10 months ago, I don’t really get to read as voraciously as I once did. I do still attempt to read at least one novel/book every month. The books I read don’t have a theme or genre. I read everything!
Most of the books I’ve read are recommended from friends or family. I just received an email the other day from a friend suggesting a book by Michael J. Fox. I sometimes shy away from celebrity books, but have really been impressed by Micheal J. Fox’s attitude during his years of living with Parkinsons Disease. So, I decided to at least read an online excerpt from the book.
I had only read the back cover when my interest was sparked. He was asking himself a question as he looked at his reflection in the mirror. Here is the line that really caught my attention and made me think about my attitude: “What are you smiling about?” but I already know the answer: “It just gets better from here.”
I thought about how bleak life could look to someone with Parkinson’s. I have a friend struggling through her fifth year with it. I admire the optimism in Michael J. Fox immensely! It made me think about my attitude and contemplate whether I needed to make an adjustment.
When I am training in the classroom for Versitas, I am always “on”. By that, I mean that I’m positive, outgoing, funny, etc. I don’t bring any of my personal life baggage into the classroom. Outside of the classroom, obviously, I’m not always “on”. I try to be as positive as possible in my daily life and dealings with others, but would I fall into the category of an optimist or a pessimist?
As I thought about optimism and pessimism, I questioned how I view my students in my training classes. Do I look at their potential and train from that viewpoint? Or, do I look at their limitations and provide direction based on that? I don’t know that I’ve every really analyzed my training from that angle. (How have I been training this long and not really addressed this in my mind before?) I’m definitely going to have to put on my thinking cap and adjust my approach for future training sessions to make sure that I’m looking at the possibilities and potential in my students to help them succeed.
I can’t recommend Fox’s book one way or the other since I haven’t read it yet. I can recommend thinking about how you look at others that you work with and/or train every day. Look for their abilities instead of their limitations and encourage them to fulfill their potential. I think that will help all of us become more optimistic and become better people, too!